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September | In deinen Träumen

EINE TRAUMKOLUMNE
September 2023 | In Ihrem Traumartikel

Wir hoffen, ihr hattet alle einen schönen Sommer wie im Italienerinnen-Stil. Mit dem Herbst wollen wir zwar endlich Schluss machen mit dem Instagram-Urlaubsneid, aber noch nicht ganz, um die letzten Reste der Saison hinter uns zu lassen. Deshalb gibt es diesen Monat etwas Scharfes. Lest es bei einem letzten Prosecco am Strand.

Ich habe geträumt, dass ich mit einer engen Freundin Sex hatte. Ich habe sie nie als mehr als eine Freundin betrachtet, aber ich denke immer noch an den Traum und bin verwirrt. Wir sind beide Single, also ist es nicht unmöglich. Wie soll ich das nur aufnehmen? Bin ich etwa in meine Freundin verknallt? Der Sex war wirklich gut, falls das wichtig ist.

Es ist wichtig. Stell dir vor, es wäre schlimm. :(

Na, vielen Dank an dich. Ein schöner, pikanter Traum ist selten, und wir sind neidisch. Was auch immer du wach für diese Person empfindest, ihr beide hattet einen rauschenden Silvesterabend im Kopf. Jetzt hast du die Möglichkeit, einfach mit deinem Leben weiterzumachen, mit diesen Bildern, die du dir immer wieder gerne in Erinnerung rufen kannst. Das ist alles, was man hier suchen kann, und das ist auch gut so. Aber du klingst, als würdest du darüber reden wollen.

Es ist verlockend, Sexträume wörtlich zu nehmen. Sie können so eindringlich und lebensecht sein, dass man sogar körperlich erregt wird. Du wachst erregt auf und denkst an deine Freundin (wir nennen sie Lola), vielleicht auf eine Art und Weise, die du dir noch nie zuvor vorgestellt hast. Das ist ein turbulenter Start in einen Tag voller leichter bis mittelschwerer Verwirrung und Geilheit. Viel Spaß beim Grübeln, ob es etwas bedeutet, Süße!

Die gute Nachricht ist: Es ist durchaus möglich, dass Ihr Traum gar nichts mit körperlicher Intimität zu tun hat. Wie die meisten Dinge, die in unseren Träumen auftauchen, ist Sex – sagen Sie es uns jetzt – eine Metapher. Der Humorist und Extrovertierte Oscar Wilde aus dem 19. Jahrhundert schrieb einst: „Alles auf der Welt dreht sich um Sex, außer Sex. Sex dreht sich um Macht.“ Daher ist die Dynamik zwischen Ihnen und Lola wichtig. Wir können Ihre Beziehung auf den Bereich untersuchen, der Aufmerksamkeit erfordert.

Wenn ihr euch in letzter Zeit näher gekommen seid, könnte Sex ein körperlicher Ausdruck dieser neuen emotionalen Nähe sein. Und ihr müsst nicht unbedingt zusammen auf Pilzen bei Vollmond geweint haben, damit euer Gehirn daraus eine richtige Pornografie macht.
September 2023 | In Ihrem Traumartikel

Wenn ihr euch in letzter Zeit näher gekommen seid, könnte Sex ein körperlicher Ausdruck dieser neuen emotionalen Nähe sein. Und ihr müsst nicht unbedingt zusammen bei Vollmond auf Pilzen geweint haben, damit euer Gehirn daraus eine richtige Pornografie macht. Freundschaften vertiefen sich durch kleine, einfache Akte der Verletzlichkeit. Vielleicht habt ihr euch gerade nett bei einem Kaffee an eurer Kücheninsel unterhalten, was, um ehrlich zu sein, die Eröffnungsszene in vielen Pornos ist.

Wenn du dich hingegen von dieser Person getrennt fühlst, könnte dein Liebesspiel dich dazu inspirieren, etwas platonische Intimität mit deinem Kumpel aufzubauen. Wenn du schon lange Kontakt aufnehmen wolltest, es aber noch nicht getan hast, worauf wartest du dann noch? Schreib ihr jetzt! Tu es, wir warten.

Andere Theoretiker vertreten eine eher transaktionale Sichtweise. Es könnte sein, dass du etwas an deiner Freundin bewunderst – ihre Freundlichkeit, ihren Humor, ihren exzellenten französischen Zopf, was auch immer – und der Traumsex ist ein Versuch, diese Eigenschaft für dich zu übernehmen. (Wir betrachten es als eine Begegnung von Zuneigung und Respekt, aber es gibt hier eine beunruhigende Nuance der Single-Weißen-Frau .) Aber wenn es eine Eigenschaft gibt, die du an Lola schätzt, warum probierst du sie nicht einfach mal aus und schaust, ob sie dir steht? Als Erwachsene vergessen wir, wie bereichernd es ist, unser Selbstbewusstsein zu erweitern, und wer weiß, vielleicht gelingt dir ja der verkehrt herum geflochtene Fischgrätenzopf (verrückt).

Aber wenn wir ehrlich sind, hoffen wir, dass du nach dem Lesen bis hierhin immer noch ein wenig unzufrieden bist. Wir hoffen, du hast deine Freundschaft mit Lola durchdacht, sie für all das geschätzt, was sie für dich bedeutet, und dir einig geworden, dass es natürlich wichtig ist, eine wachstumsorientierte Denkweise zu haben, bla bla bla. Aber da ist noch etwas anderes. Du kannst es nicht genau benennen. Und wenn dieses kleine nagende Gefühl anhält und wächst, bis du eines Morgens mit der plötzlichen Klarheit aufwachst: Lola ist die Richtige für dich, du kannst nicht ohne sie leben, du musst jetzt zu ihr gehen und ihr deine Liebe gestehen? Wir wären nicht böse darüber.

Wenn du schon einmal aus einem Traum aufgewacht bist, der dich fragte: „Was war das denn?“, und in der nächsten Folge von „In Your Dreams“ vorgestellt werden möchtest, kontaktiere uns unter dreams@lunya.co mit einer detaillierten Beschreibung der Funktionsweise deines Unterbewusstseins. Wir freuen uns darauf, von dir zu hören.
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Regular Price $288 Member Price $244.80

Waschbares High-Rise-Hosenset aus Seide

Regular Price $288 Member Price $244.80
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Lunya Size Guide

Unsure of your size? No need to lose sleep over it—we are here to help! To ensure proper fit, please refer to the fit guide below and if you have any questions, please feel free to email us at happiness@lunya.co. We are happy to guide you!

Cut with comfort in mind. Reasonable ease over body relying on the mechanical stretch of the fabric. Armhole sits in line or slightly below the apex.

Cut with comfort in mind. Reasonable ease over the body relying on the mechanical stretch of the fabric. Armhole sits in line or slightly below the apex.

Cut with generous ease over body. Shoulder and armhole is dropped below the apex to achieve a relaxed fit throughout the body and sleeve.

Sits at the natural waist or the narrowest part of the torso.

Sits approximately 1 ½” - 2” below the navel.

Sits approximately 3” - 4” below the natural waist.

Stretch to fit relying on the functional stretch of the fabric. Higher armhole and narrower shoulder achieves a slim body-conscious fit through the body and sleeve.

Cut with comfort in mind. Reasonable ease over the body relying on the mechanical stretch of the fabric. Armhole sits in line or slightly below the apex.

Cut with generous ease over body. Shoulder and armhole is dropped below the apex to achieve a relaxed fit throughout the body and sleeve.

Stretch to fit relying on the functional stretch of the fabric. Higher armhole and narrower shoulder achieves a slim body-conscious fit through the body and sleeve.

Cut with comfort in mind. Reasonable ease over the body relying on the mechanical stretch of the fabric. Armhole sits in line or slightly below the apex.

Cut with generous ease over body. Shoulder and armhole is dropped below the apex to achieve a relaxed fit throughout the body and sleeve.

Cut with generous ease over body. Shoulder and armhole is dropped below the apex to achieve a relaxed fit throughout the body and sleeve.

Measurement

Measurements refer to body size unless otherwise noted. Fits may vary by style and personal preference. If you’re on the borderline between two sizes, order the smaller size for a tighter fit or the larger size for a looser fit. If your measurements for bust and waist correspond to two different suggested sizes, order the size indicated by your bust measurement.

Returns / Exchanges

Worried about ordering the wrong size? We offer free exchanges within 30 days of your order.

Learn More
Sizes (US) Bust Waist Hip
00 XXS 33-34 24 31
0-2 XS XS/S 32 25 35
0-2 XS XS/S 33 26 36
4-6 S XS/S 34 27 37
4-6 S XS/S 35 28 38
8 M M 36 29 39
8 M M 37 30 40
10-12 L L/XL 38 31 41
10-12 L L/XL 39 32 42
14 XL L/XL 41-42 34-35 43-44
16 1X 43-44 36-37 46-47
18-20 2X 45-46 38-39 48-49
Sizes (US) Bust Waist Hip
00 XXS 83.82-86.36 60.96 78.74
0-2 XS XS/S 81.28 63.5 88.9
0-2 XS XS/S 83.82 66.04 91.44
4-6 S XS/S 86.36 68.58 93.98
4-6 S XS/S 88.9 71.12 96.52
8 M M 91.44 73.66 99.06
8 M M 93.98 76.2 101.6
10-12 L L/XL 96.52 78.74 104.14
10-12 L L/XL 99.06 81.28 106.68
14 XL L/XL 104.14-106.68 86.36-88.9 109.22-111.76
16 1X 109.22-111.76 91.44-93.98 116.84-119.38
18-20 2X 114.3-116.84 96.52-99.06 121.92-124.46

*Note: Refer to the product you are on to determine what size category is applicable. eg: Sizing can be S or XS / S

size chart: Tops — Fitted

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal.

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal.

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Tops — Easy

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal.

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Tops — Oversized

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Bottoms — High rise

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Bottoms — Mid rise

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Bottoms — Low rise

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Rompers + Jumpsuits — Fitted

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Rompers + Jumpsuits — Easy

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Rompers + Jumpsuits — Oversized

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Dresses — Fitted

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Dresses — Easy

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Dresses — Oversized

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Robes + Cardigans — Oversized

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

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Waschbares Camisole-Set aus Seide

Regular Price $248 Member Price $210.80

Waschbares Camisole-Set aus Seide

Regular Price $248 Member Price $210.80
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Lunya Size Guide

Unsure of your size? No need to lose sleep over it—we are here to help! To ensure proper fit, please refer to the fit guide below and if you have any questions, please feel free to email us at happiness@lunya.co. We are happy to guide you!

Cut with comfort in mind. Reasonable ease over body relying on the mechanical stretch of the fabric. Armhole sits in line or slightly below the apex.

Cut with comfort in mind. Reasonable ease over the body relying on the mechanical stretch of the fabric. Armhole sits in line or slightly below the apex.

Cut with generous ease over body. Shoulder and armhole is dropped below the apex to achieve a relaxed fit throughout the body and sleeve.

Sits at the natural waist or the narrowest part of the torso.

Sits approximately 1 ½” - 2” below the navel.

Sits approximately 3” - 4” below the natural waist.

Stretch to fit relying on the functional stretch of the fabric. Higher armhole and narrower shoulder achieves a slim body-conscious fit through the body and sleeve.

Cut with comfort in mind. Reasonable ease over the body relying on the mechanical stretch of the fabric. Armhole sits in line or slightly below the apex.

Cut with generous ease over body. Shoulder and armhole is dropped below the apex to achieve a relaxed fit throughout the body and sleeve.

Stretch to fit relying on the functional stretch of the fabric. Higher armhole and narrower shoulder achieves a slim body-conscious fit through the body and sleeve.

Cut with comfort in mind. Reasonable ease over the body relying on the mechanical stretch of the fabric. Armhole sits in line or slightly below the apex.

Cut with generous ease over body. Shoulder and armhole is dropped below the apex to achieve a relaxed fit throughout the body and sleeve.

Cut with generous ease over body. Shoulder and armhole is dropped below the apex to achieve a relaxed fit throughout the body and sleeve.

Measurement

Measurements refer to body size unless otherwise noted. Fits may vary by style and personal preference. If you’re on the borderline between two sizes, order the smaller size for a tighter fit or the larger size for a looser fit. If your measurements for bust and waist correspond to two different suggested sizes, order the size indicated by your bust measurement.

Returns / Exchanges

Worried about ordering the wrong size? We offer free exchanges within 30 days of your order.

Learn More
Sizes (US) Bust Waist Hip
00 XXS 33-34 24 31
0-2 XS XS/S 32 25 35
0-2 XS XS/S 33 26 36
4-6 S XS/S 34 27 37
4-6 S XS/S 35 28 38
8 M M 36 29 39
8 M M 37 30 40
10-12 L L/XL 38 31 41
10-12 L L/XL 39 32 42
14 XL L/XL 41-42 34-35 43-44
16 1X 43-44 36-37 46-47
18-20 2X 45-46 38-39 48-49
Sizes (US) Bust Waist Hip
00 XXS 83.82-86.36 60.96 78.74
0-2 XS XS/S 81.28 63.5 88.9
0-2 XS XS/S 83.82 66.04 91.44
4-6 S XS/S 86.36 68.58 93.98
4-6 S XS/S 88.9 71.12 96.52
8 M M 91.44 73.66 99.06
8 M M 93.98 76.2 101.6
10-12 L L/XL 96.52 78.74 104.14
10-12 L L/XL 99.06 81.28 106.68
14 XL L/XL 104.14-106.68 86.36-88.9 109.22-111.76
16 1X 109.22-111.76 91.44-93.98 116.84-119.38
18-20 2X 114.3-116.84 96.52-99.06 121.92-124.46

*Note: Refer to the product you are on to determine what size category is applicable. eg: Sizing can be S or XS / S

size chart: Tops — Fitted

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal.

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal.

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Tops — Easy

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal.

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Tops — Oversized

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Bottoms — High rise

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Bottoms — Mid rise

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Bottoms — Low rise

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Rompers + Jumpsuits — Fitted

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Rompers + Jumpsuits — Easy

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Rompers + Jumpsuits — Oversized

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Dresses — Fitted

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Dresses — Easy

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Dresses — Oversized

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Robes + Cardigans — Oversized

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

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