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March | In Your Dreams

A DREAM COLUMN 

I’m pregnant for the first time and I’m having a lot of dreams about it. In the latest one, my cousin and I are both expecting, and someone throws us a big baby shower. Everyone is fawning over my cousin, and no one remembers that it’s my party, too. Eventually I get jealous and have a big meltdown that everyone is ignoring me at my own event. It’s strange because I don’t enjoy being the center of attention usually. Deep down, am I a secret attention hog?

Congratulations on your growing family! How thrilling to be on the cusp of a new era of life, about to take on a new identity and hard launch a whole new human being. It’s not surprising your brain is working some of this transition out in your dreams. That’s a lot of change at once, as we surely don’t have to tell you.

Attention hog is a fun phrase, like a pig with theater kid energy. There is a lively corner of this world for such people, who want all eyes on them, but we can’t imagine that’s a trait you’ve been unknowingly suppressing. And that’s not quite what we’re getting from you in your dream anyway. We don’t behave in dreams like we behave in real life, and getting upset because you’re isolated at a party where you are meant to be a guest of honor feels like a reasonable reaction, tame even by dream standards. Those party people were jerks!

We’re just catching a whiff of self-judgment in the question. What about a more generous phrasing, something like: Deep down, where in my life am I not feeling seen?


Identity evolves as we age, and change evokes growing pains.

Identity evolves as we age, and change evokes growing pains. You are currently integrating a doozy of a new self: MOTHER. There’s just…so much there. On an unconscious level, societally, within your own family and your partner’s, in every movie and song and ancient Greek myth. And motherhood has only grown more complicated to match our complicated society. Finding who you are, or hope to be, as a mother is necessary but also brave, as the world does not tend to give women much grace to ~figure things out~. It’s a delicate time, and important to have a trusted network for support.

You may feel like a burden when you’re the so-called center of attention, but think of it as a way for friends or family to show their love for you via their time, energy, and, yes, money.

As for practical advice, there’s an uncannily easy solve here. You’re in the season of life when people are desperate to (nearly literally) shower you with parties and gifts and onesies stamped with upsettingly cute sloths. If you’re so inclined, this is the time to say yes to a party in your honor. You may feel like a burden when you’re the so-called center of attention, but think of it as a way for friends or family to show their love for you via their time, energy, and, yes, money. (Sometimes you gotta accept people’s love languages where they are.) Just make sure you’re on the same page about what scale event would make you happiest. The people who love you most are dying to celebrate you. Let them and have some fun yourself.

And to close, we will fawn over you, like the party people did for your cousin, because you deserve it. Shhhh, just let it happen: You’re an interesting, beautiful person with great taste and good opinions. How do you keep your teeth so white? You’re going to be a wonderful mom. You’ve got everything you need. Can we get you a lemonade or maybe a pickle? Here, let us help you put on those compression socks…


If you’ve ever woken up from a dream like, what the hell was that?, and would like to be featured in the next In Your Dreams, contact us at dreams@lunya.co with a detailed description of the inner workings of your unconscious mind. We're dreaming of hearing from you.

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Cut with comfort in mind. Reasonable ease over the body relying on the mechanical stretch of the fabric. Armhole sits in line or slightly below the apex.

Cut with generous ease over body. Shoulder and armhole is dropped below the apex to achieve a relaxed fit throughout the body and sleeve.

Stretch to fit relying on the functional stretch of the fabric. Higher armhole and narrower shoulder achieves a slim body-conscious fit through the body and sleeve.

Cut with comfort in mind. Reasonable ease over the body relying on the mechanical stretch of the fabric. Armhole sits in line or slightly below the apex.

Cut with generous ease over body. Shoulder and armhole is dropped below the apex to achieve a relaxed fit throughout the body and sleeve.

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8 M M 36 29 39
8 M M 37 30 40
10-12 L L/XL 38 31 41
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14 XL L/XL 41-42 34-35 43-44
16 1X 43-44 36-37 46-47
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0-2 XS XS/S 81.28 63.5 88.9
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4-6 S XS/S 86.36 68.58 93.98
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8 M M 91.44 73.66 99.06
8 M M 93.98 76.2 101.6
10-12 L L/XL 96.52 78.74 104.14
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14 XL L/XL 104.14-106.68 86.36-88.9 109.22-111.76
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Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

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Cut with comfort in mind. Reasonable ease over body relying on the mechanical stretch of the fabric. Armhole sits in line or slightly below the apex.

Cut with comfort in mind. Reasonable ease over the body relying on the mechanical stretch of the fabric. Armhole sits in line or slightly below the apex.

Cut with generous ease over body. Shoulder and armhole is dropped below the apex to achieve a relaxed fit throughout the body and sleeve.

Sits at the natural waist or the narrowest part of the torso.

Sits approximately 1 ½” - 2” below the navel.

Sits approximately 3” - 4” below the natural waist.

Stretch to fit relying on the functional stretch of the fabric. Higher armhole and narrower shoulder achieves a slim body-conscious fit through the body and sleeve.

Cut with comfort in mind. Reasonable ease over the body relying on the mechanical stretch of the fabric. Armhole sits in line or slightly below the apex.

Cut with generous ease over body. Shoulder and armhole is dropped below the apex to achieve a relaxed fit throughout the body and sleeve.

Stretch to fit relying on the functional stretch of the fabric. Higher armhole and narrower shoulder achieves a slim body-conscious fit through the body and sleeve.

Cut with comfort in mind. Reasonable ease over the body relying on the mechanical stretch of the fabric. Armhole sits in line or slightly below the apex.

Cut with generous ease over body. Shoulder and armhole is dropped below the apex to achieve a relaxed fit throughout the body and sleeve.

Cut with generous ease over body. Shoulder and armhole is dropped below the apex to achieve a relaxed fit throughout the body and sleeve.

Measurement

Measurements refer to body size unless otherwise noted. Fits may vary by style and personal preference. If you’re on the borderline between two sizes, order the smaller size for a tighter fit or the larger size for a looser fit. If your measurements for bust and waist correspond to two different suggested sizes, order the size indicated by your bust measurement.

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Sizes (US) Bust Waist Hip
00 XXS 33-34 24 31
0-2 XS XS/S 32 25 35
0-2 XS XS/S 33 26 36
4-6 S XS/S 34 27 37
4-6 S XS/S 35 28 38
8 M M 36 29 39
8 M M 37 30 40
10-12 L L/XL 38 31 41
10-12 L L/XL 39 32 42
14 XL L/XL 41-42 34-35 43-44
16 1X 43-44 36-37 46-47
18-20 2X 45-46 38-39 48-49
Sizes (US) Bust Waist Hip
00 XXS 83.82-86.36 60.96 78.74
0-2 XS XS/S 81.28 63.5 88.9
0-2 XS XS/S 83.82 66.04 91.44
4-6 S XS/S 86.36 68.58 93.98
4-6 S XS/S 88.9 71.12 96.52
8 M M 91.44 73.66 99.06
8 M M 93.98 76.2 101.6
10-12 L L/XL 96.52 78.74 104.14
10-12 L L/XL 99.06 81.28 106.68
14 XL L/XL 104.14-106.68 86.36-88.9 109.22-111.76
16 1X 109.22-111.76 91.44-93.98 116.84-119.38
18-20 2X 114.3-116.84 96.52-99.06 121.92-124.46

*Note: Refer to the product you are on to determine what size category is applicable. eg: Sizing can be S or XS / S

size chart: Tops — Fitted

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal.

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal.

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Tops — Easy

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal.

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Tops — Oversized

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Bottoms — High rise

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Bottoms — Mid rise

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Bottoms — Low rise

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Rompers + Jumpsuits — Fitted

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Rompers + Jumpsuits — Easy

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Rompers + Jumpsuits — Oversized

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Dresses — Fitted

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Dresses — Easy

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Dresses — Oversized

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Robes + Cardigans — Oversized

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

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Unsure of your size? No need to lose sleep over it—we are here to help! To ensure proper fit, please refer to the fit guide below and if you have any questions, please feel free to email us at happiness@lunya.co. We are happy to guide you!

Cut with comfort in mind. Reasonable ease over body relying on the mechanical stretch of the fabric. Armhole sits in line or slightly below the apex.

Cut with comfort in mind. Reasonable ease over the body relying on the mechanical stretch of the fabric. Armhole sits in line or slightly below the apex.

Cut with generous ease over body. Shoulder and armhole is dropped below the apex to achieve a relaxed fit throughout the body and sleeve.

Sits at the natural waist or the narrowest part of the torso.

Sits approximately 1 ½” - 2” below the navel.

Sits approximately 3” - 4” below the natural waist.

Stretch to fit relying on the functional stretch of the fabric. Higher armhole and narrower shoulder achieves a slim body-conscious fit through the body and sleeve.

Cut with comfort in mind. Reasonable ease over the body relying on the mechanical stretch of the fabric. Armhole sits in line or slightly below the apex.

Cut with generous ease over body. Shoulder and armhole is dropped below the apex to achieve a relaxed fit throughout the body and sleeve.

Stretch to fit relying on the functional stretch of the fabric. Higher armhole and narrower shoulder achieves a slim body-conscious fit through the body and sleeve.

Cut with comfort in mind. Reasonable ease over the body relying on the mechanical stretch of the fabric. Armhole sits in line or slightly below the apex.

Cut with generous ease over body. Shoulder and armhole is dropped below the apex to achieve a relaxed fit throughout the body and sleeve.

Cut with generous ease over body. Shoulder and armhole is dropped below the apex to achieve a relaxed fit throughout the body and sleeve.

Measurement

Measurements refer to body size unless otherwise noted. Fits may vary by style and personal preference. If you’re on the borderline between two sizes, order the smaller size for a tighter fit or the larger size for a looser fit. If your measurements for bust and waist correspond to two different suggested sizes, order the size indicated by your bust measurement.

Returns / Exchanges

Worried about ordering the wrong size? We offer free exchanges within 30 days of your order.

Learn More
Sizes (US) Bust Waist Hip
00 XXS 33-34 24 31
0-2 XS XS/S 32 25 35
0-2 XS XS/S 33 26 36
4-6 S XS/S 34 27 37
4-6 S XS/S 35 28 38
8 M M 36 29 39
8 M M 37 30 40
10-12 L L/XL 38 31 41
10-12 L L/XL 39 32 42
14 XL L/XL 41-42 34-35 43-44
16 1X 43-44 36-37 46-47
18-20 2X 45-46 38-39 48-49
Sizes (US) Bust Waist Hip
00 XXS 83.82-86.36 60.96 78.74
0-2 XS XS/S 81.28 63.5 88.9
0-2 XS XS/S 83.82 66.04 91.44
4-6 S XS/S 86.36 68.58 93.98
4-6 S XS/S 88.9 71.12 96.52
8 M M 91.44 73.66 99.06
8 M M 93.98 76.2 101.6
10-12 L L/XL 96.52 78.74 104.14
10-12 L L/XL 99.06 81.28 106.68
14 XL L/XL 104.14-106.68 86.36-88.9 109.22-111.76
16 1X 109.22-111.76 91.44-93.98 116.84-119.38
18-20 2X 114.3-116.84 96.52-99.06 121.92-124.46

*Note: Refer to the product you are on to determine what size category is applicable. eg: Sizing can be S or XS / S

size chart: Tops — Fitted

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal.

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal.

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Tops — Easy

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal.

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Tops — Oversized

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Bottoms — High rise

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Bottoms — Mid rise

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Bottoms — Low rise

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Rompers + Jumpsuits — Fitted

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Rompers + Jumpsuits — Easy

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Rompers + Jumpsuits — Oversized

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Dresses — Fitted

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Dresses — Easy

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Dresses — Oversized

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

size chart: Robes + Cardigans — Oversized

Bust

Measure around the fullest part of your chest, keeping tape horizontal

Waist

Measure around your natural waistline and keep the tape comfortably loose and horizontal

Hip

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, keeping tape horizontal.

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